STARS

The STARS Model: A Framework for Transformational Conversations

S – Safety & Boundaries
Explore what safety looks and feels like for you. Learn how to set and honor clear physical and emotional boundaries.

T – Turn-Ons & Desires
Discover what truly brings you pleasure—emotionally, mentally, and physically. Reconnect with what lights you up.

A – Avoids & Hard No’s
Identify past wounds, unspoken limits, and what doesn’t serve you—so you can reclaim agency and self-trust.

R – Relationship Intentions & Expectations
Clarify what you're looking for in connection, commitment, and intimacy. Get honest about what works for you.

S – Sexual Health & Wellness
From STI prevention to hormone changes, we provide open, informed conversations that support your whole-body health.

Make Time For The Talk!

WORKSHOPS AND SPEAKING

Available to teach at your school, college, or place of work. Online classes available.

STARS:
For Young Adults

Workshops offered to empower young adults to not only be able to do "the talk" but also lead their own workshops and educate others.

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STARS:
For Non-monogamous People

3 hour workshop created especially to address the needs nonmonogamous people. Additional focus on STIs.

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LEARN MORE

Comprehensive explanations and demonstrations of The STARS Talk.

The STARS Method

Good Girls Talk About Sex Podcast

with Leah Carey

"[Dr. Evelin Molina Dacker] explains the STARS method she created. It’s an easy-to-remember acronym that will help you begin conversations leading to great, consensual sex.

But I don’t want you to just get the theory behind the conversation, I want you to hear it in practice! So I invited my friend Ray to join me for a sample STARS conversation."

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Seeing STARS: A Stimulating Safer Sex Talk

TEDx Talks: Evelin Molina Dacker at TEDxSalem

Dr. Molina Dacker explores a new way to be communicative about sexuality to promote a healthier society and build better relationships with ourselves and others. Now more than ever we need a sexual paradigm shift and it starts by talking about it.

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